So, I am a first generation Latina that lives in Georgia.
And most of my life, I have felt like my calling was to ensure that other women and femmes like myself were able to live their lives happy and fulfilled, and that they were able to find their calling in life.
Mine, of course, has become real reproductive justice and ensuring that people feel safe and loved and joyful.
So when it came time to me to make a decision about my future, my body, my reproductive health, it was one of the few times in my life that I have not felt joy and fulfillment.
Because I thought to myself, “I don’t want to have to make this decision.”
But then I had to remember that I have for many years been advocating for the rights, the freedoms, the choices that many of us don’t have.
And when it came down to my own story, and when it came down for me to have an abortion—man, I felt very lonely.
Not because I didn’t know what decision I was going to make, but because in that moment, I didn’t have the community and the friends and sometimes the courage to ask for help or to be helped.
And now that I’ve been in this reproductive justice movement for over a decade, I have met a lot of people like myself, that felt really alone and scared.
But at the end of the day, I’ve met more people that have never regretted their decision, much like myself, to not just terminate a pregnancy, but to put ourselves first, which is not something very common in my culture.
To put myself first and my needs first. But how could I not, when I see my life now, eight years later, and could not trade a single thing?
Because I have come to a point where I feel the joy, the fulfillment, the satisfaction, but more than anything, pride for being who I am and getting to this point in my life where I know that I’ve been able to succeed.
I’ve been able to find love, I’ve been able to build a home on my own terms because I made a decision that was right for me.